Comments by Participants of the Soul Mate Training - Level 7
Course taught by Sarita and Geho

The soul mate training is the most significant, centred loving integrative, expansive and spiritual training I have ever embarked on - cutting through duality and providing a rich, safe and loving, as well as challenging space in which body, spirit, soul and psyche can be brought together in harmony. I am 57 and a minister of religion - and yet despite undertaking a great deal of personal experiential growth work - I have never experienced and attained the sense of peace that this course offers and in being led, guided and supported by a couple who live and walk their talk and who are the embodiment of grace, love, humour, generosity and presence. More and more I have learned how to live in the "now"

Rory Talisker

I have learned more deeply how to love simply and simply love - 'now' and that every moment is now as I am living it. This love is in every act I make - waking in the morning, eating my breakfast, as well as loving (including sexual communion) with my husband. Tantra training has enabled me to experience in my own unique way - that every door is a door of love - even when it looks like a wall. Geho and Sarita live their teaching - their embodiment of love inspires me to greater loving - everyone should do tantra - it changes the world you live in.

Marion Bryans

Tantra has been the most significant thing that I have done in my life. It is such a powerful method for personal transformation - and yet every step of my emotional, physical and spiritual journey was provided and supported with such love, patience and understanding by Geho and Sarita.
I have now completed level 7 of the Couples Training, and I can say with all my heart, that I have experienced such opening and deepening love, not just for me as a being on this beautiful world, but also for my beloved partner and all others that journey with us.

Todd

This is by far the most important training I have done in my whole life! Never be deterred by fear of difficulty, by the time it takes or by the money it costs - if you give your totality, you will emerge enriched beyond measure, loved beyond words, and freer than a bird.

Marietta

I have enjoyed it very much, in spite of the great challenge to my mind offered by Sarita and Geho. I've been astonished by the variety of people who have completed the Training, and I'm encouraged to believe that any couple who sincerely want to know the depth of love they hold for their partner and themselves, will hugely benefit from this Training. I am eternally impressed and delighted by the way Geho and Sarita walk their talk, and have held us with clarity, strength and love with the complete absence of drama.

Richard Beale

This journey has transcended our relationship from one of conflict and inconsistent commitment, to one of solid love, devotion, ecstasy, and deep commitment. Sarita and Geho are shining examples of devoted, loving relationship and they teach with such lightness and depth and tolerance and understanding, but most of all... such fun! Thank you - We love you both so much!

Alexandra Lake

This training has brought us to such depths of love and consciousness that we knew existed and also to depths of experience that were an utter revelation and blessing. It has taken our love and sexuality to heights and depths and shone light in every corner. I have felt blessed to be taught it by teachers of such grace and laughter who shine in their example of how heaven and earth can be integrated and lived. My being is expanded, my mind is empty and my soul is at peace. Thank you so much.

Sujan

The soul mate training has been a beautiful opportunity to dedicate time and energy to our relationship on a regular basis. Sarita, Geho and the other couples created such a space of safety where we could explore our love, seeing our consciousness grow through all the different meditations/tantric appointments. It has been an incredible and rich experience and I feel that this journey will go on and on.

Nuro

Beloved fellow seekers,

Doing this training has enriched my life so much, both as an individual and as part of a couple. I have experienced profound healing from the structures and, although I was afraid sometimes, trust of Sarita and Geho moved me through and expanded my experience and consciousness. As part of a couple I have experienced heights of love I didn't even know existed. This training has been the most profound and joyous, wondrous journey I have ever been on. Travelling as part of a couple can be hard, but with the teaching and wisdom and love of Sarita and Geho I always felt supported, both in the groups and between groups by email. We relate from a much higher space now, we rarely argue or if we do, it diffuses very quickly. I have been incredibly nurtured and blessed to have been able to do this training. Open yourself to the potential for bliss and the sublime. On level 7 I experienced a satori which lasted several hours.

Mita

It has given me the longest experience of stillness and/or silence I have ever known. It has allowed me to taste all aspects of my sexuality freely. Which is a wonderful gift. My love has grown immensely.

Ajay Hawkes

I enrolled in a Soul Mate Tantra Training course, at the age of 60, not knowing what Tantra was about. I had never heard of Tantra, I had just got married and my partner and I searched the internet for some course to enrich our relationship. Tantra popped up on the screen and we said "Let's go for it", After completing the course I would love to give the gift of Tantra to all my 60 year old colleagues and friends. Wonderful, enriching, and has opened new frontiers to travel to.

Gerry Trehy

We decided to explore Tantra early in our marriage in order to deepen our relationship. I said at the first level training that I wanted to try to make our relationship even more amazing. For us it has happened gently and delightfully. The wonderful things in our relationship have grown, and new wonderful things have emerged. Thank you!

Nancy Flexman

Do it! If you value yourself, your beloved your relationship, life, our divine contract, your friends, children, community, our planet - then do this training! I don't think a way exists which can be more loving, more supportive, warmer, hotter(!), more generous, more gentle, compassionate, sweaty, funny, encouraging, challenging, inspirational, expanding and profoundly awakening than this! Please do it!

Lindy

Sarita and Geho are deeply trustworthy. If you are called to tantra, please dare, for all our sakes.

Tim

The beauty that I perceived in my beloved at the start of the training was immense and I did not know that anything could be bigger than this. I discovered that I was only seeing the tip of the iceberg and there was so much more. Out of that moreness I discovered a beauty which is eternal and ever present in the whole of life which included me. The beauty I experienced now I know to be me.

Keerti

What a feast this journey of lovers is. And yet so often we are sitting at each others table eating small morsels. If you are hungry to taste more deeply of your love for each other, to drink more deeply of your own inner being, then come to this training. Begin this journey wherever you are, this is the perfect starting place. Take each other by the hand and come to this feast of the heart, the senses, the soul and the great mystery that is the shared heart of two people deepening in love together. My beloved and I have been through this training twice. I cannot recognize myself, so much has transformed! I began with a wish to be able to share more freely of the love I felt inside, and I discovered that there is no end to this love, this energy, this vastness that continues to flow through me.

Divyam Chaya

Both personally and in the couple, we have transformed beyond recognition. The journey was incredibly beautiful and has given me thirst for more. Each stage was like an initiation into more of me. I felt like I had been waiting for this all my life. Now it feels like tantra is an integral part of my life, part of my relating, my mothering, my work and all other aspects. I keep attracting more love, joy and happiness as I share it with others. In gratitude.

Almeerah Ariel Hallaire

This training has opened a light in my life. I was very scared and resistant to all the issues that came up in the initial four levels. But then something changed inside me and I embraced all that Tantra has to offer and became an enthusiastic proponent of it. My life and relationship with my partner has been completely transformed by the seven levels of this training. Now I feel I strongly want to share this experience with others through teaching and counselling as it has returned me to my true nature, reconnected me to my spirit.

Nicolas Guy Ngan

Lifetimes of wisdom, and experience are contained in this training..... It is a journey into love, with love, through love, beyond love, ...to dissolve into the One.
Words cannot express my gratitude to you both and to the source of your teachings and guidance.

Martin Jelfs
UKCP Psychotherapist

This training has been a gift on a personal level as well as transpersonal level. The most profound is the depth and enrichment and support to our couple relationship. It was worth waiting for nearly 61/2 years to reach level 7. It has been most honouring and nourishing. We have enjoyed journeying this path as part of our path and to integrate it with our other practices, very enriching and enlightening. Your beautiful way and fun is a joy even at challenging times. May your lives continue to shine on others. Namaste. Om Tat Sat!

Hanna Katz - Jelfs

I joined level 1 because my partner wanted to. I started reluctantly and as a sceptic. As I complete level 7, I feel expanded as a human being and even more deeply in love with my chosen partner. I want to express my heartfelt thanks to Geho and Sarita and my fellow travellers on this journey.

Josie Driver

As a rationalist I am astounded at the insights I have gained, both into myself on a practical level but also into a spiritual side of me, of which I never suspected even existed. The results have enriched my life and relationship beyond all my imaginings. (The next hurdle is mixing this new me with a career)

Julian Driver

If your heart is sincere, Tantra can bring you the love and harmony that you have dreamed of since your were a little child, rolling in the grass laughing.

Richard

This Tantra training has allowed me to live more simply, with less expectation on myself and on my partner. Something has relaxed, let go, softened. Today, I enjoy life more, in everyday pleasures, and in the great pleasures that both of us share. I feel complete, as if I had reconnected the pieces of my inner puzzle, into a better shape. I am finally, myself, fulfilled, overflowing with a deep desire to share with others around me this immense gratitude to be vibrating and alive.

Isabel

I am very happy that I met you on the path. It is great luck. The path is full of traps that I had to surmount. Each moment I saw that each challenge made me more loving and lovable. If the transformation is sometimes painful, it allows us, each moment, to become conscious of everything that is happening. These workshops have helped me to grow alone and in the couple. My life is changed. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Michel